Senior Reporter
sascha.wilson@guardian.co.tt
A 27-year-old woman was chased down by her ex-lover who, in a fit of rage, ploughed into her with his car in Debe on Tuesday night.
Kiefer Wilson, also known as Diane, of Caratal Road, Gasparillo, died on the median along the Solomon Hochoy Highway extension after the attack.
Police said Wilson was liming with a 42-year-old male friend, who came from abroad to celebrate her birthday last Saturday, at a bar in Gasparillo, when her 26-year-old ex-boyfriend drove by and saw them. There was a confrontation but Wilson and her friend left in a white Aqua. However, the suspect pursued them in a Mazda 3.
While nearing the Gandhi Village roundabout on the southbound lane just before 10 pm, the suspect suddenly swerved in front of them and stopped, resulting in their vehicle hitting his.
Wilson, her friend and her ex-lover came out of their cars.
There was an altercation and the suspect struck Wilson with a wheel spanner in her head. The woman and her friend ran to escape the suspect, heading along the median onto the northbound lane. However, the suspect returned to his car and chased after them. He eventually slammed into Wilson, who landed in a drain on the median and died minutes later. The suspect’s vehicle also crashed in the median.
The police later took the suspect to the San Fernando General Hospital, where he was treated and discharged. He remains in police custody.
The police returned to the scene yesterday with Wilson’s friend as investigations continued.
Burying his face in his hands when Guardian Media visited yesterday, Wilson’s uncle, Stephen Wilson, was too distraught to speak with the media.
Wilson’s older sister, Shazara Sankar, said her cousin called her with the tragic news at 4.30 am yesterday. She said her sister had ended the relationship with the suspect “a long while ago,” but she never expected him to hurt her.
“The last time I talked to her about him was last week and she tell me she block him off of everything because he was too toxic,” Sankar said with tears in her eyes.
“He had a tendency of coming and parking up in front her house when he don’t get through with her phone. He actually came in front of my house looking for her at a point in time and she say he was just too toxic and she just fed-up of him and she not on that right now.”
She said Wilson’s friend, who lives in Jamaica, surprised her for her birthday but as far as she knew they were not in an intimate relationship.
As they try to cope with her loss, Sankar said she was hoping to speak with Wilson’s friend to get a better understanding of what happened.
She said her sister never made a police report against the suspect. However, she said Wilson had confided in her about a recent incident.
“He came. She was in a car to come to San Fernando and he pulled her out of the car. She said she started to cry ... He put her in his car and she did not tell me what happened after that.”
She said her sister later told her she was ashamed and did not want anyone to know what happened.
However, she advised women not to ignore warning signs in their relationships.
“If you have a problem with somebody, the slightest thing, let somebody know because my sister used to keep a lot to herself and my father said he did not know this was going on. It escalate so fast. My sister did not even thought that person would have done that to her.”
Meanwhile, the International Women’s Resource Network (IWRN) and the Coalition Against Domestic Violence (CADV) is again expressing concern about incidents of domestic violence.
In a statement, the IWRN urged victims to take domestic violence seriously, as ignoring it can lead to death. They also reminded victims that stalking is classified as domestic violence. The IWRN called on the police to take appropriate action in domestic violence reports, instead of sending victims back into the arms of their abusers. IWRN can be contacted on Facebook or WhatsApp at 795-9531.
CADV also noted that within the last month, two young women were killed as a result of intimate partner violence, and this week a mother died at the hands of a close male relative.
“We cannot emphasise enough that this trend will continue unless we collectively address the issue of Domestic Violence.”
CADV also called for toxic masculinity to be addressed within the context of healthy, respectful relationships.
“Many women and men are staying in unhealthy relationships which can be detrimental to their well-being and safety. Many perpetrators do not handle rejection very well. They become violent when partners try to move on or exit violent relationships.”
Officers of the Homicide Bureau of Investigations Region 3 are investigating.