Sitting on a bench in Oropune Gardens, Piarco, with her eight-year-old son playing in her lap, Carla Charles could not hold back the tears ON Thursday.
“I just want my child to go to school.”
It seems a simple enough wish. After all, education is a basic right for every child. But given that her son Jemarc Dial struggles with cerebral palsy, it has drastically limited her options.
“There is no school for children with cerebral palsy aside from Princess Elizabeth and Lady Hochoy and both of them said there isn’t any room available, so I have to stay home to see about him.”
Charles said there are private institutions but the monthly fee ranges from $2,500 to $3,500 a month. Far beyond the means for the 27-year-old mother, who cannot find employment due to her son’s condition.
“Even if I get a job, the shifts don’t allow me to see him during the day, especially with him not in school, there’s simply no where to put him and even if I put him in a day-care, he won’t learn anything,” she said.
It’s distressing for Charles to watch her only child miss out each year on an education.
“It’s very heart-breaking to see that other children could have a fair opportunity and we have to fight to get him into something,” she added.
During the interview, Jemarc sang quietly to himself, using a bench as an instrument and even spoke briefly to his mother, wondering if, in fact, his cousins would eat his snacks at home.
Charles said despite his challenges, he’s a very alert child.
“I just want him to be able to function as a normal person in society,” she said, taking a deep breath as her tears grew longer, “without the world stopping him.”
Charles said she was grateful for the State assistance she receives for Jemarc, which is $1,500 for the month. However, because it is the sole source of income, it runs out in about two weeks.
“Because when I go to the grocery, I spend half then I go back a week later and the rest done. It’s really just to make sure he has food to eat and everyday things getting more and more expensive,” she noted.
Charles said her financial constraints mean that she and Jemarc bounce around from relative to relative, but she said she is tired of being a burden to her family.
But her anguish turned to anger when Guardian Media asked if she believes children with cerebral palsy are a national priority.
“Princess Elizabeth and these places still don’t have the equipment for the children, and they telling you this machine not working, that machine not working, even when they have to go do therapy things not working, so they can’t even do that properly and then you only get appointments three months apart,” she said.
Unfortunately, Charles and Jemarc are not alone in their struggle.
“Let me put it in a nutshell, they don’t give a s**t about people with disabilities in this country,” an incensed Phillip Metevier, president of the Cerebral Palsy Society of Trinidad and Tobago (CPSTT), said yesterday.
Metevier said there are some “mainstream” schools which attempt to accommodate these children, but noted they lack the infrastructure to meet their needs.
“Most schools don’t have wheelchair ramps, they don’t have accessible toilet facilities, you supposed to have special teachers, aides in the school, nothing of the sort! These children are home, maybe one or two get through because they know somebody,” Metevier said
Metevier said the society made a request to former education minister Anthony Garcia for a specialised school for children with cerebral palsy.
“I gave him a document, that was since 2017 and up to now, a new minister take over and nothing for the children,” Metevier said.
Metevier said the society was also informed some time back about an additional grant for single parents who have children with cerebral palsy but nothing materialised.
“I might get licks for this but it’s alright, I had a meeting with the Director of Grants, I sent names to him of single mothers, is two months now and the last time we spoke he said send back the names. I sent it back and up to now he didn’t do anything about that,” Metevier also said.
Metevier urged Guardian Media to highlight their struggles more, saying there are many issues that go unnoticed.
In the meantime, if anyone would like to offer Charles a job or to lend assistance to Jemarc, they can call 296-6937.