“When everyone’s mind is dulled or distracted, the leader must be doubly vigilant.”
--Colin Powell
Details dictate direction.
Anti-establishment sentiment defines most young men growing up in working-class, marginalised, low-income and poor communities all over the world not only in T&T and the Caribbean.
There were always community leaders/elders who young men looked up to. Different circumstances dictate alignment and affiliations.
While the positive impact and influence of mothers and women who form the extended family or “village” that raises a child are unquestioned.
It is a male figure that young men yearn for.
I recall growing up in Belmont without the reality of a father. The absence of his presence, voice, and influence left a void that the best efforts of a mother couldn’t fill. No matter how much my mother did- and she was superhuman, unconditional and immense in her endeavour, love and energy - there was that void.
Who or what fills that void? It’s other male figures or activities considered manly. At times it seems as if every effort to get an understanding and acceptance of the power of our music, culture and sport to make that difference in the lives of youth and young people falls on deaf ears and infertile ground. It’s not about tokenism.
However, I have come to realise that it’s not that people don’t get it or hear it. They do. They hear what you are saying intellectually. But the truth is it isn’t resonating emotionally. It hits their mind and brain but not the heart.
There is an echo of soullessness that boomerangs back. It doesn’t resonate emotionally. For many sports is a soulless vanity project. Over the years, this column has devoted time and space to advocating and championing the role sport can play in national development. In all the doom and gloom- there is hope and betterment.
Last Thursday, I participated as one of the mentors in the Ministry of Sport and Community Development MPowerTT- MZONE discussions for young men between 16-40 years old. This particular session one of a number across T&T was held in Princes Town. It was well attended and the attendees were very frank, honest and interactive.
The Minister of Sport and Community Development Shamfa Cudjoe must be commended for her determination to ensure the MPowerTT- MZONE initiative saw the light of day.
It’s an important heart-to-heart conversation of learning, sharing and growing. It’s about sharing a message of hope. The theme of the project is to empower, embrace, educate, and elevate. The intention is to provide a platform to address issues that are relevant and impactful to our nation’s boys and men. A number of the Princes Town attendees expressed a desire to be given opportunities in music or sport to break the economic barrier.
They identified those two aspects as their passion. Regardless of how troubled or at risk they may be perceived by society at large. They yearn for opportunities to follow and express their passion.
Rich or poor, delinquent or recalcitrant-everybody wants to experience a better life in some way or another. It’s an emotional destination we all would like to head toward.
The desire for meaning, identity, to be seen, heard and understood.
At this point, it may seem that we are losing the battle but I am confident notwithstanding how it looks like right now we will eventually win the war on youth crime and gun violence. The courage of thought. Let’s keep our minds focused and not be distracted by the daily crisis.
The core mission is constant. A brighter, better and sustainable T&T, Caribbean and World.