Subtle domestic violence
There are two types of domestic violence. The first type is non-physical or subtle, which is the psychological battering (nagging) of each other through vicious thoughts, hurtful words or unkind body language, especially the eyes and face. Violence through thoughts is when there are negative feelings and ill wishes for others, such as hate, envy and jealousy. Here, both feel the effects, but the generator of these feelings receives the worst. This is because "hate is like an acid, it does more damage to the vessel in which it is stored that the object on which it is poured." When these negative feelings can no longer be contained, physical aggression is the next step.
Physical domestic violence
The second type of violence is but the consequence of subtle violence and this often manifests itself into physical abuse. Physical abuse, therefore, is the product of subtle violence. Whatever the form of violence, the root cause stems from getting angry, or from expectations when some desire is not fulfilled, or from hurting someone's pride or ego–resulting mainly from infidelity or from unrequited love, or from being possessive as a result of attachment. These macabre and heinous violent acts manifested today are the product of a society that sidelined spirituality for promiscuity and have redefined the true meaning of morality for their own selfish means.
Causes and victims of violence
The cause of violence begins in the mind with negative vicious feelings and end up with "mankind" as the victim in the form of a depraved society. The source of violence is a non-physical one and so the solution must also be a non-physical one.
Triggers of domestic violence
Some of the factors that trigger anger and arrogance are unfulfilled desires and expectations, obsessions as well as addictions to lust, greed and power. Unfulfilled desires and obsessions are generally temporary in nature, but addictions to lust and greed for power are more permanent in nature and very often end in casualties. An addiction to infidelity or debauchery is possibly your worst enemy as this can lead to separation, divorce or death. When bitten by lustful infidelity, a person loses all reasoning powers, neglects all responsibilities, as well as respectability, and will commit the most