FAYOLA K J FRASER
Kim Kirton, a 38-year-old professional has been diabetic for more years of her life than she has not. Kirton, a marketing and communications professional, with a BA (Hons) in Media & Communications and MA (Dist) in Advertising and Marketing from the University of Leeds has spent the last 28 years successfully navigating her life, education, career and relationships with Type 1 diabetes.
Kirton manages her own struggle with the illness but also raises awareness surrounding diabetes, through her Instagram page “Kim The Type 1 Diabetic”, where she details some of the issues she has to continuously contend with to maintain her health at optimal levels and function at her best.
Type 1 diabetes, once called insulin-dependent or juvenile diabetes, was previously thought to occur more frequently in children but has been found to develop at any age. Type 1 diabetes is less common than type 2—about five-ten per cent of people with diabetes have type 1. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), it is thought to be caused by an autoimmune reaction (the body attacks itself by mistake). This reaction destroys the cells in the pancreas that make insulin, called beta cells. In some cases, certain people have genes that make them more likely to develop Type 1 diabetes. A trigger in the environment, such as a virus, can also play a part in developing the illness. Diet and lifestyle habits are not the causal factors for Type 1 diabetes as they can be for Type 2.
Kirton was born and raised in Trinidad and is the middle sibling of three. Her older sister is not diabetic, but her younger brother, Kerrie is also a Type 1 Diabetic. As proof that there is not always a direct causal link within a family in terms of the illness, they do not have immediate family members with diabetes. Kirton’s grandmother developed Type 2 diabetes in the late years of her life before her passing. At age eight, Kirton’s brother was diagnosed with diabetes, and when she was 11, her mother started noticing similar symptoms in Kirton as her brother experienced. “I remember being thirsty all the time no matter how much water I drank,” she says. She also would urinate frequently, had blurred vision, and overwhelming feelings of exhaustion, lethargy and an inability to focus. Upon recognising these symptoms, Kirton’s mother put her on the same dietary regime as her brother. However, just after sitting Common Entrance, she was warded at Port-of-Spain General Hospital for over two months to undergo treatment and learn and understand how to manage the illness.
At the tender age of 11, during her stay in the hospital, Kirton was not able to grasp the magnitude of the illness and the way it would alter her life’s course. She does, however, remember making friends with the grandchild of a warded patient, who would pay Kirton a routine visit every time she came to see her grandmother. Making new friends and “having fun” as she described, made a bigger imprint in Kirton’s memory than any negative connotations of being a diabetic.
‘Get a solid foundation of support’
After 28 years of living with the illness, Kirton described that any diabetic’s biggest challenge, “is in every moment, trying to balance our blood sugar”. The balancing act that diabetics have to do requires them to ensure that their blood sugar is not too high–with too much glucose in their bloodstream, and also not too low, with too little glucose in their bloodstream. High levels of glucose are dangerous, and Kirton attributes spiked levels to potentially eating too many carbohydrates without the requisite insulin intake. These high levels cause her (and other diabetics) to urinate frequently and feel plagued by all the symptoms of lethargy and exhaustion experienced pre-diagnosis.
Even more dangerous, in her opinion, is plummeting blood sugar, which leaves her weak, lifeless and prone to trembling and sweating. “I’ve been in a coma twice in my life resulting from low blood sugar,” she recalled pensively. This balancing act not only results in immediate symptoms in the moment, but if not properly managed can affect and damage organs long term. Kirton said the nerve damage that she contends with in her feet was a result of diabetes.
This nerve damage in her feet sometimes becomes problematic, as she is one of the most dedicated gym goers in existence. Her commitment to exercise, testing her blood sugars constantly, and reducing stress are integral to her toolbox. Another of her secret weapons is her positivity. She looks at diabetes as a gift, “because that’s what it is; a gift you’ve been given to manoeuvre through life, to show others that what some may think impossible is in fact, possible”. She also is optimistic about the future, as technology continues to improve and develop, with innovations such as the Continuous Glucose Monitor (CGM) which allows diabetics to monitor their blood sugar without using finger pricks. The CGM, however, is still inaccessible to many people due to the cost, at approximately $17,000 (TT) per year.
Carnival is one of Kirton’s great loves, and she spends the season working hard, liming, feteing and enjoying herself on the road, just as anyone else would, but with an extra layer of consciousness. Aside from Carnival, day-to-day activities that most people do without a second thought, require thoughtfulness and forward planning for diabetics. “Working out, going into an unexpectedly long work meeting without having eaten, walking long distances in a new city,” are some scenarios that have caused Kirton’s blood sugar to unexpectedly drop. In any uncertain or new situations, she always has to be armed with a high-glucose snack in case her sugar drops. These challenges have become something she is well prepared for, but the balancing act “sometimes still feels impossible”. Kirton, with her cheerful spirit and radiant energy, however, is dedicated to still getting up every day and trying her best to manage the illness and live as joyously as she can.
Relying on the support from her family and friends, especially her younger brother also afflicted with the illness keeps Kirton going. Ever positive, she counts herself as “lucky to have him on this journey with me, someone to make light of the challenges when they feel too daunting.”
She even jokes with him that she got diabetes for him so that he would not be alone, but really, rooted in her faith, believes that God allowed them both to have it to be each other’s support system. This support is the crux of her message to other diabetics who may be struggling, to not only arm themselves with the tools, habits and mental capacity to manage the disease but also a solid foundation of support that makes all the difference. Her Instagram page “KimTheType1Diabetic” provides an insight into her lifestyle, lived experiences and top tips for people living with the illness.
Kim Kirton wears many hats, marketing professional, daughter, sister, aunty, health buff and Christ seeker, but the one that she refuses to don is the victim. She continues to prove her tenacity by overcoming the challenges and curveballs diabetes throws at her, to come out stronger every time.