Cherisse Moe
In Trinidad and Tobago, you don’t always need a long explanation to make a point. Sometimes all it takes is a “monkey know what tree to climb.” To a foreigner, it might sound like gibberish, but we understand it is an observation about human behaviour. People are well aware of who they can push around and who they cannot.
If you find yourself getting too worked up over another person’s problem, you might hear a “doh drink tea for other people fever” and case closed. This is the beauty of Trinbago talk. A few words can carry a whole situation—advice, warning, humour and a little picong—without anybody having to spell it out.
But some of the older generation believe local parlance may be dying out. At 77 years old, San Fernando native Janice Forde has heard local sayings all her life. Looking back at how things used to be before screens took over, she tells Guardian Media, “What happened long ago was that we communicated by talking and observation; the youngsters nowadays? They don’t talk. They look at television all day and rely on the networks to communicate for them, so the older slangs would not even be relevant to them,” she reasons. “They would not understand what we are saying as they don’t think, they just talk, because in their minds the system is smarter than the old people.”
A lifetime of talk
The older folks just had a way of expressing themselves that comes in handy in any situation. Hear a friend drop “take front before front takes you” and you move out of harm’s way before it reaches you. That right there is just smart living.
Some expressions even come with a warning. ‘All skin teeth eh laugh’ delivers the message that a grin is not necessarily a sign of friendship. It doesn’t mean to become paranoid, but you don’t have to believe every smile either.
Then you get “two man-rat cyah live in de same hole.” Two people competing, clashing or refusing to give way in the same space? Trouble is bound to follow. There simply isn’t room for two egos trying to run the show.
When patience is wearing thin, a reminder that “time longer than twine” settles it. Whatever feels urgent or impossible today usually works itself out. Endurance always outlasts pressure. That is the pleasure of these idioms. They take everyday things—animals, twine, a smile - and turn them into local truths.
Words that carry weight
Younger generations will always find fresh ways to speak, borrow slang from other cultures, and put a new stamp on communication. However, Forde believes old Trinbago sayings still belong in the mix. She names two specific local proverbs she keeps close as she has watched people rush into bad choices: “My favourites are ‘Never use the light of night to see what is visible in the light of day’ and ‘See me and come live with me are two different things.’ These have stayed with me because during my lifetime I have seen so many people go down the path of making decisions on a whim without seeing what is happening. They just go with their feelings and not their intuition. But your intuition always wins out if you take your time.”
They may not be used as frequently today, but the lessons passed down on our street corners are built to last. A country’s language carries the wit of past generations, capturing how people related to each other, survived hard times, and figured out the world around them. In T&T, we don’t just talk. We talk we talk.
