As the world marked World Mental Health Day on Saturday, writer Carol Quash took us on an unexpected journey to a cat café, where the comfort and companionship of cats are helping to create a safe and welcoming space for people dealing with mental health challenges. It is a place where furry friends, conversation and compassion come together to make a difference.
Animal companionship has been found to be beneficial for mental and physical health, as for many people, interacting with animals can provide a sense of comfort, calm and relaxation – one of the many objectives of the St Augustine-based Lily’s Cat Café.
“Cats are very powerful spiritual beings with peaceful energies, and they definitely help with mental health,” cat lover and co-founder of the café, Michelle Pounder told WE Life and Culture.
“Just by simply sitting and petting a cat, brings me more into the present moment and helps reduce stress.”
Although they each have unique personalities and set boundaries, she believes they all have one thing in common: “They just want a human to be able to give love to.”
The cafe was the creation of a space where cat lovers and felines can spend time together, but also to try to dispel a lot of the negative perceptions people have about cats.
“So we just wanted to create a comfy environment where they could spend time with cats in ways that maybe they haven’t been able to before. I grew up with pets my whole life, but I was scared of cats, for no reason. Similarly, there are many people who fear cats, but they never have a reason.”
She said it wasn’t until she got cats of her own and moved into her own space with them that she saw a very different side to them.
“You just think that they’re scary and they’re going to scratch you, but they’re super loving, just in a different way and on their own terms.”
The café is open to individuals and groups, and she said they’ve had people coming in for various reasons.
“Some people just come to literally sit down and chill with the cats, just to play with them. Some people will come for a quiet space to work while having the comfortable presence of a cat. Some people come with friends to play games, or they may have lost a pet of their own and they just wanted a space where they could fully interact with their new pets.”
The café also hosts events, such as Paws and Reflect, Catnip and Paint, as well as movie nights with the cats.
“So different events cater to different types of activities that people want to do. My favourite is Paws and Reflect, which is a guided meditation in the presence of these very peaceful animals; a very powerful tool for stress and anxiety reduction.”
Catnip and Paint, she explained, sometimes involves putting paint on a canvas and sprinkling catnip over it.
“The cats kind of help create the masterpieces. They roll around on top of it and create the background of your artwork.”
Pounder said a cat café was first opened at the location by Tenderheart Animals Veterinary Clinic. She and co-founder Akil Samuel officially took over the space in 2024 and renamed it after her own cat, Lily.
“They (Tenderheart) created the space, built everything in the cats’ room, all the ramps and everything. They really built a very comfortable space for the cats and were looking for somebody to take over the space. And at that point in time, I was thinking about opening a cat cafe.”
Pounder visited Columbia, where she saw how a cat cafe functions.
“So everything just fell into place. We did a six month trial where we just hosted events and then took over fully last year, June.
The café currently serves as home to 11 cats, and a lot more waiting to come in, mainly from the Trinidad & Tobago Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals - TTSPCA.
“We try to keep it at ten, but sometimes we can’t,” she explained, as cats of varying colours and sizes jumped into her lap, curiously peeked into her handbag, found themselves inside comfortable baskets, sprawled out on top of tables and bookshelves, and paced with their tails up in the air.
“As soon as we get them adopted, we take in new cats to replace them. We have a room where we would keep the new cats for a while until they acclimatise to the space and the other cats get used to them. And then we introduce them to the whole clan.”
After a cat is adopted, she said, they don’t immediately take in any new ones, just in case there are returns.
“Sometimes they don’t acclimatise well or they clash with other pets. So we do give a little grace period, because, of course we’ll take them back.”
And while she would love to take them all home, she already has her hands and laps full.
“I have three cats of my own at home, and my boyfriend threatened that it’s either the next cat or him,” she laughed heartily.
Pounder’s education on animal welfare and pets came through her full-time marketing job, through which she has had to work closely with a lot of shelters, including the TTSPCA, through which the cafe gets its new cats.
Funding for the café comes from paid visits, events, and out of her own pocket.
Hopefully, she said, it will eventually become a self-sustaining, functioning business.
But for now, she encourages people, including non-cat lovers, to visit and experience the café, even if out of curiosity.
“It’s a great opportunity to, in a very comfortable, quiet atmosphere, be able to interact with them and understand their different personalities. You may be surprised how your perception may change.”
