The inconvenient truth is that both toxic and wholesome individuals get promoted. This means that good, bad and ugly habits make the journey as well. One way to begin the process of neutralising the habits that can cause mayhem and maximising those that breed civility is for leaders to undertake the exercise of self-enquiry.
It’s an essential process that places new and prospective leaders under the microscope for a self- examination of their core beliefs, traits, attributes and habits. The results provide insights into the strengths and weaknesses of the candidate on the human side of leadership.
Authentic self-enquiry enables individuals to confront the good, bad and destructive ways in which they show up in the world. It’s peeling back the innermost workings of the self and detailing the discoveries. The consequent action would be to apply either small acts of personal improvement or revolutionary transformation remedies, depending on what needs to be corrected. To their credit, some newly promoted leaders have already completed this level of personal evolution and possess a laudable degree of enlightenment. For those leaders who have yet to address the journey of self-enquiry, it is an essential step in pre-empting emotional and behavioural dysregulation. Neglecting this step often sparks interpersonal and cultural friction.
When executed correctly, the process of deconstructing one’s persona can be both gratifying and terrifying. In many cases, individuals discover some deep-seated emotions that have been buried alive. While these emotions may have been associated with adverse experiences that occurred in the past, their long tail of influence continues to be felt in the present through their presence in the subconscious mind.
Often, the self-enquiry suite of practices forces these buried influencers to surface, allowing the new leader an opportunity to confront and course correct.
The practice of self-enquiry enables new and prospective leaders to become aware of their triggers and offers an opportunity to sidestep the perils associated with destructive auto responses. The reality is that for many individuals, habits and patterns form innocuously. Positive as well as negative behaviours, once repeated, become wired into the subconscious mind. Before long, individuals develop auto-responses to situational triggers. In the absence of awareness or intervention, these behaviours persist. Some cause harmony, others, havoc. Being oblivious to one’s adverse auto responses and their associated patterns of behaviour can be one of the most potent drivers of leadership impairment.
The practices attached to the self-enquiry exercise eliminate several attributes that are detrimental to leadership excellence. They eliminate the “superior wisdom” trap. Leaders who have fallen into this trap display “know-it-all” arrogance, are dismissive of others and are unaware of their communication blind spots. An effective result would be leaders with low emotional baggage, high empathy levels and a human connection advantage.
Self-enquiry should be a mandatory exercise for prospective and newly promoted leaders. Through structured reflection, hidden mental, emotional and behavioural risks to their leadership legacy are revealed. The leaders are guided to develop the inner architecture that produces healthy behaviours that prevent atmospheric chaos.
A successful outcome will be the emergence of leaders who can avoid the pitfalls of leadership arrogance and are emboldened to reset the central tenets of their leadership style. They become forces of nature. Employees will have the pleasure of interacting with leaders who are thoughtful, composed and emotionally regulated. Not erratic individuals who are prone to impulsive behaviour and questionable judgement.
This is the shaping of conscious leadership, where the leader is not tone deaf to the complex realities of leading a modern-day workforce. The trick is to harness the dynamism of a business environment to produce the ideal cultural state, where task-based performance and human transcendence co-exist.
Conscious leadership is more than personal growth. It is a business strategy that translates into a competitive advantage in the marketplace. Success on the human side of leadership produces cultural harmony, which, in turn, acts as a moat that supports strong business performance.
The starting point? Self-enquiry on the part of the leaders.
