Some people waking up this morning are going to be happy. Hopefully, it is most of the nation. We could do with some happiness.
On Saturday morning, as I came down my street with my wife after our neighbourhood walk, I passed a middle-aged man standing outside his car. I did not know him. I raised my hand in salute, smiled and said, “Good morning.” He stared at me for a moment and turned his back.
We could do with some happiness.
There is something called a ‘Country Happiness Index’. It’s a three-year average determined by analysing Gallup polling data from most of the world’s countries in six categories: gross domestic product per capita, social support, healthy life expectancy, freedom to make your own choices, generosity of the general population and perceptions of internal and external corruption levels.
T&T ranks 70th in happiness out of 147 countries based on the 2024 World Happiness Report, falling 32 places, compared to the last available report in 2017.
We could do with some happiness.
After the age of 60 or so, when some of life’s desires have either been satisfied or are not as urgent as they once were, one does start wondering about happiness. How important is it? How does one get there? How long can a body be happy? What is more important for happiness, money or your health? Security? Friends? Family? A caring government? A bottle of rum?
There seem to be two different kinds of happiness. Both equal. Both needed.
Level One happiness is the kind of pleasure you get from coming first in test, eating a piping hot shrimp roti or sipping a good rum. That’s a pleasurable state that tends to be intense, but temporary. It generally lasts around 15 minutes.
There is another kind of happiness called Level Two happiness. It is the kind of satisfaction and contentment you may feel when you look at your life and think about past achievements and the general direction that your life is heading. That form of happiness is less intense than Level One happiness, but is longer lasting.
Interestingly, both forms of happiness are in some conflict with each other. Too much of one may lessen the other. Yet, both are needed and complement each other.
What are the social or personal conditions that are needed to make people happier?
There seem to be five main things: money, mental health, a secure and loving private life, a secure community and moral values.
It’s pretty clear that provided you’ve got at least a reasonable income, money by itself does not make you happier.
Over the past 60 years, most Trinis have got better homes, prettier clothes, more cars and despite the setbacks, better healthcare. Yet, happiness has not increased in T&T.
Things which make us want more income make us less happy. Advertising and social media make people less and less satisfied with what they’ve got and the effect is particularly detrimental where children are concerned.
Mental illness in T&T is a scandal. Roughly 25 per cent of us experience serious mental illness during our lives, and about 15 per cent experience major depression. Sales of antidepressants are at an all-time high. Yet no one talks about it as a cause of unhappiness.
For most people, valued personal relationships with family, colleagues, friends and neighbours are the best guarantee of happiness. People are happier and better able to function when they feel they can trust other people.
In a recent WHO survey, 11 to 15-year-olds were asked ‘Do you agree with the statement that most of the students in my classes are kind and helpful?’ Some of the answers by country were: Sweden, 77 per cent yes; Germany, 76 per cent; Denmark, 73 per cent; USA, 53 per cent; Russia, 46 per cent; England, 43 per cent.
It’s interesting that figures for happiness in these very same countries are quite similar.
Throughout the world, and we are now seeing this in Trinidad for the first time, the proportion of people who say “Yes!”, when asked: “can most people be trusted?” has fallen dramatically.
Crime is directly related to the level of mutual trust in a community. Insecure communities make for unhappy people.
The philosophy of individualism, “entitlement,” the idea that you are entitled to the good things in life and that your main duty in life is to make the most of yourself and get the most that you can from society, also seems to have taken over our idea of the good life.
“Giving back” is not something that resonates in our island society.
But friendship, voluntary work and remarkably, dancing, generate more joy in humans than anything else. It takes leadership to point that out and leadership is scarce in T&T these days.